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Happy Father’s Day! (a day early but we’ll be busy tomorrow…)

We’re a day early here at Childtastic Books but we’re going to be spoiling Holly’s dad Carl tomorrow so chances are we won’t get on to the site much. So this post is dedicated to Carl who Holly says is “nice, kind, funny and caring”. She also said “tall” which is true!

Dad and daughter
Dad and daughter … just a normal family scene!

To be fair, I should show one of Carl with his real hair!

Holly and Carl
Holly and Carl on holiday. If you peer carefully you may see the ubiquitous doughnut on the table!

 OK, embarrassing picture time over. Next, we have a round-up of Holly’s Father’s Day books. She only included ones where the dads were responsible, discrediting Pippi Longstocking’s father for going off and having adventures without her.

Top ten stories about dad (in our library, and in no particular order)

Some of these are written by the same author, so I will group them together.

Numbers 1, 2 and 3: all by David Walliams

The Boy in the Dress

Mr Stink

Billionaire Boy

 

 

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Holly once was overawed and rather tongue-tied when she met David Walliams at a book signing at Waterstones in Oxford. She had first come across his stories through an audiobook I downloaded for a car journey – Mr Stink – and thought he and Matt Lucas were hilarious. When David Walliams chatted to her as he signed her own copy of Mr Stink and his next book, Billionaire Boy, Holly just stood there, mouth agape. I think she managed to mutter something to one of the questions and then skipped away after being offered a Malteser.

Anyway, Holly has chosen these books because she says the fathers in them are good examples of how dads should be:

  • “In Billionaire Boy, the dad buys his son everything he needs but when things go wrong and the boy runs off then the dad realises how much he loves him and wants him back.”
  • “In The Boy in the Dress, the dad brings the boys up because the mother has left home. He’s nice but doesn’t know how to show it. By the end though he shows it very nicely.”
  • “In Mr Stink, the dad is nice to the daughter when the mum is not. He treats her well and understands her.”

It’s quite interesting actually, considering David Walliams’ books together like this. There does seem to be a pattern in them in terms of the children feeling like outcasts and uncomfortable in their own skins. The parents don’t appear to know how to handle this (as is often the case in real life) but mums don’t fare quite as well as dads do in his stories.

Numbers 4 and 5, by Roald Dahl

4 Danny the Champion of the World

 

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5 Charlie and the Chocolate Factory

 

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Roald Dahl is one of Holly’s favourite authors (alongside David Walliams, featured above). I think we’re all quite familiar with his sometimes grotesque treatment of adults and acerbic tongue when describing them but he can be kind too. These two books are examples of how parents, while needing help from their children, can still provide a good example and a loving relationship. Holly chose these two because:

  • “In Danny, the Champion of the World, the father supports Danny when his mother dies, and looks after him, and they have a good relationship.” (You can read Holly’s review of Danny here.)
  • “In Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, the dad works really hard to bring in money for his family.”

6. Swallows and Amazons, by Arthur Ransome

 

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I must admit I was rather surprised Holly nominated this book because we’ve failed to finish it. However, the father must have made enough of an impression to inspire her to put this in her top ten. When I asked her why she said this book when the father is ‘at sea’  for the duration, she said, “Because he allowed them the chance to go off in the boat. If he hadn’t they wouldn’t have had their adventures.” So an absent but permissive parent is top of the pops. Must remember that.

7. The Diary of a Young Girl, by Anne Frank

 

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Holly came across this one while researching her books for this post. She suddenly remembered Anne Frank’s descriptions of her relationship with her father and how “she gets on better with him than her mum. Her mum doesn’t understand her and they don’t get along.” It does happen, sometimes, and the daughter-father relationship is well-known and documented for its particular closeness.

8. Out of the Hitler Time, by Judith Kerr

 

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When I was 8 or 9 I remember reading When Hitler Stole Pink Rabbit, Judith Kerr’s fictionalised version of her own family’s experiences during the Second World War and the rise of the Nazis. I recommended it to Holly, who then took to it with fascination. I bought the trilogy as I thought it would be interesting to follow the story on but I must say that the second and third books were rather more adult in content. We did read them with Holly in the end, but wouldn’t let her read them on her own as some of the issues they deal with are too adult. Holly loved the trilogy and, in fact, loves anything by Judith Kerr, as her review of Mog the Forgetful Cat shows.  

Holly chose this trilogy for the Father’s Day list for very similar reasons to Anne Frank’s autobiography – that the girl in these stories does seem to have more in common with her father. “Her mother was quite stressed a lot of the time,” said Holly, “whereas her father seemed to understand her more.” Goodness, this must happen in this house, as I tend to stress a lot and I haven’t the excuse of World War Two to blame.

9. The Lion King, story adapted from the film by Disney

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We were a little concerned that we didn’t have many picture books in our selection, especially since these are the ones that often focus on dads and how special they are. When we visited a bookshop last week, all the displays were dedicated to baby books about dads but we don’t seem to have any here! Anyway, The Lion King was a good choice as it does portray how far a father’s love for his child will go. Holly thinks this is the utmost in fatherly love: “He saved Simba from a stampede of wildebeests but died instead!”  There is no greater sacrifice, and thankfully this situation is rare.

10. Can You Catch a Mermaid? by Jane Ray

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We have already reviewed this book on the site here but we wanted to repeat it again because it is a lovely portrayal of a daughter-father relationship that seems to be more unusual in books than the typical mother-child bond.  As Holly says:  “He is very nice to his daughter: he’s good and they have a caring relationship.”

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Childtastic Books started out as a collaborative blog, written by me and my young daughter Holly. Now she's nearly a teen, she's off doing exciting and new things but I am still here, reading, writing and reviewing books for children and young adults of all ages. I miss her input but I hope she will pop in from time to time to do some guest posts! A little about me - I have just finished an MA in Children's Literature from the University of Roehampton (result pending, eeek) and am a part-time primary school librarian. The other part of my time is spent writing and editing, my own work and others, and I am waiting for my first non-fiction book to be published - a teacher resources pack for Handa's Surprise. I welcome comments and love to hear from visitors to this blog. Please note though that, because of time constraints, it is rare that I can read and review books from self-published authors. I receive so many requests and feel badly about not being able to keep up with them all. Thanks for visiting! Sam

2 thoughts on “Happy Father’s Day! (a day early but we’ll be busy tomorrow…)

    1. Glad you found some new books in there. David Walliams is great for a laugh though his books are quite sad in some ways too. The audiobooks are hilarious – I think Holly prefers them to the written ones as he and Matt Lucas are well-known comedians here in the UK.

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